tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-65204341955375669642024-03-13T08:21:11.405-07:00Peacefulfirst born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.comBlogger279125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-55087699982835625532010-10-20T03:56:00.001-07:002010-10-20T03:56:37.924-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9upna7uT0pViv5QLVB-e9jLMQJ2PXaRgcsYGLA2GEYFAlEPyTQuMl0uB1lvkuQi7zN5IR7WYe9S07tl-zxjTVFADbbylHcGhV0jbMTxEBR11V7aZMTxqVsU8VJWCrKPdsfNwoBnsTM1xT/s1600/tumblr_l7c85omoUQ1qzk5l4o1_500.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9upna7uT0pViv5QLVB-e9jLMQJ2PXaRgcsYGLA2GEYFAlEPyTQuMl0uB1lvkuQi7zN5IR7WYe9S07tl-zxjTVFADbbylHcGhV0jbMTxEBR11V7aZMTxqVsU8VJWCrKPdsfNwoBnsTM1xT/s400/tumblr_l7c85omoUQ1qzk5l4o1_500.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5530080448629520226" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-42021077448923842032010-10-19T02:49:00.000-07:002010-10-19T02:51:40.896-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilzoQmRR3BWAVx91UftKKQylQ9a0OhW32eMapqC7uHm_18DKFxvhuusvYVUYut-UpM2koWWIW556ndFFbcaGnqdpCfqEXhKNctV9nngU4JdGCWPRFpVxIczcsxV8wXR0lIbLHY3XrOQDVB/s1600/tumblr_laf5p1BzoF1qa9jmuo1_1280.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilzoQmRR3BWAVx91UftKKQylQ9a0OhW32eMapqC7uHm_18DKFxvhuusvYVUYut-UpM2koWWIW556ndFFbcaGnqdpCfqEXhKNctV9nngU4JdGCWPRFpVxIczcsxV8wXR0lIbLHY3XrOQDVB/s400/tumblr_laf5p1BzoF1qa9jmuo1_1280.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5529692615297857682" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(112, 112, 112); line-height: 16px; "><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px; line-height: normal;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Mr Weasley dropped to his knees beside George. For the first time since Harry had known him, Fred seemed to be lost for words. He gaped over the back of the sofa at his twin’s wound as if he could not believe what he was seeing.</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Perhaps roused by the sound of Fred and their father’s arrival, George stirred.</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">George’s fingers groped for the side of his head.</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">‘Saint-like,’ he murmured.</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">‘What’s wrong with him?’ croaked Fred, looking terrified. ‘Is his mind affected?’</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">‘Saint-like,’ repeated George, opening his eyes and looking up at his brother. ‘You see… I’m holy. <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">Holey</em>. Fred, geddit?’</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Mrs Weasley sobbed harder than ever. Colour flooded Fred’s pale face.</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">‘Pathetic,’ he told George. ‘Pathetic! With the whole wide world of ear-related humour before you, you go for <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">holey</em>?</p></span>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-74075488976150656622010-10-19T02:45:00.002-07:002010-10-19T02:47:34.150-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKOxmaBEKSwfR7pdSUpmblqxenpzZlSKnqBUqS29R0SFnA2yy5t6HQRiwVZAdUkBo1Pttq48M7wAxdLS6H2TMsNnHu12TrxdUjchEm_w9NYu0Jmo14576GwBB3BMPUj2Ok0fwS95HSa5mI/s1600/tumblr_la79ioiG211qzcdbso1_500.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 178px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKOxmaBEKSwfR7pdSUpmblqxenpzZlSKnqBUqS29R0SFnA2yy5t6HQRiwVZAdUkBo1Pttq48M7wAxdLS6H2TMsNnHu12TrxdUjchEm_w9NYu0Jmo14576GwBB3BMPUj2Ok0fwS95HSa5mI/s400/tumblr_la79ioiG211qzcdbso1_500.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5529691552732950018" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-79448279683129094162010-10-19T02:45:00.001-07:002010-10-19T02:45:49.401-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhi1b_gnHTtu1mpI976GKQsLHW1elwPU4noIhfPoFkuaba_evBiJv3stA4wh5X86tneczApTUNEmQXS_tIxD9YFe8NaojvFVHT_gVY7YbvL9y4cD9G_uCWRKzhEH4HKTLUmVVkh79RR1_MX/s1600/tumblr_l8clumHonV1qzecayo1_500.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 298px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhi1b_gnHTtu1mpI976GKQsLHW1elwPU4noIhfPoFkuaba_evBiJv3stA4wh5X86tneczApTUNEmQXS_tIxD9YFe8NaojvFVHT_gVY7YbvL9y4cD9G_uCWRKzhEH4HKTLUmVVkh79RR1_MX/s400/tumblr_l8clumHonV1qzecayo1_500.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5529691014590897186" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-31668251383632705652010-10-19T02:29:00.000-07:002010-10-19T02:43:23.255-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2ej-h0ldJA4xUk4IqZ6_qoPEsU1yjEuWNilG6UHqOud1lt8IHRObzctr6a6Nf4OwWBQwtd5zu00zMlDzA7qB0okQ7cvZ5n5MtkXZLZ6XgZlWqzV31rjvAdRp9812vm0xvLKyzqY5cz7Su/s1600/tumblr_l9hmrpT8ag1qazlglo1_500.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 158px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2ej-h0ldJA4xUk4IqZ6_qoPEsU1yjEuWNilG6UHqOud1lt8IHRObzctr6a6Nf4OwWBQwtd5zu00zMlDzA7qB0okQ7cvZ5n5MtkXZLZ6XgZlWqzV31rjvAdRp9812vm0xvLKyzqY5cz7Su/s400/tumblr_l9hmrpT8ag1qazlglo1_500.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5529687177194490610" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-61421163242698838292010-10-19T02:28:00.000-07:002010-10-19T02:29:01.070-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgwgNQwpDClnIS1STk4OimyVj6sOYMSBQXxV-7JsjJv_p_ol2MAm2v-b6opzqM_y5A7gddXNqEQUcvQTodMpWCVb5ckT5BDW5g9Rmzi7MKuPzO6Ow7J_WDazLWg2Jvw0OQHqRYHzFH9NY3X/s1600/tumblr_lagwmudIoo1qdra04o1_400.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 310px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgwgNQwpDClnIS1STk4OimyVj6sOYMSBQXxV-7JsjJv_p_ol2MAm2v-b6opzqM_y5A7gddXNqEQUcvQTodMpWCVb5ckT5BDW5g9Rmzi7MKuPzO6Ow7J_WDazLWg2Jvw0OQHqRYHzFH9NY3X/s400/tumblr_lagwmudIoo1qdra04o1_400.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5529686653078801826" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-21501382583027533582010-10-19T02:23:00.001-07:002010-10-19T02:23:55.552-07:00<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(68, 68, 68); line-height: 19px; ">I’m the kind of girl who feels ugly without makeup, and when she has a bad hair day, her whole day is bad, who is a lot more self conscious then you would think. The type of girl who hates her own voice and thinks she’s really annoying. The girl who has a huge heart, but gets used a lot. The girl who always wants to have real friends, but always seems to choose bad ones. The kind of girl who just wants to be loved by you and accepted unconditionally.</span>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-68174223091310049872010-10-19T02:22:00.000-07:002010-10-19T02:23:36.681-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmdrk6aI9BbPPFGaR5KlDwa3GvsOzaUYS6yjJMNMYu0a31Buy4g-HNSlWPHIji4pTryKDYKyfKy5ywiifXNbdCfPL9-Uq2JSj82_0MZc2Zxyso1IET9aVHK3jtz0cwZAlS4uOMiiQFwphm/s1600/tumblr_lagipe0mCG1qd9f2io1_500.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 237px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmdrk6aI9BbPPFGaR5KlDwa3GvsOzaUYS6yjJMNMYu0a31Buy4g-HNSlWPHIji4pTryKDYKyfKy5ywiifXNbdCfPL9-Uq2JSj82_0MZc2Zxyso1IET9aVHK3jtz0cwZAlS4uOMiiQFwphm/s400/tumblr_lagipe0mCG1qd9f2io1_500.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5529685273521172210" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-85769485920928631372010-10-16T16:26:00.001-07:002010-10-16T16:26:38.591-07:00<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10px; color: rgb(112, 112, 112); line-height: 10px; "><div class="media zoom" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; position: relative; "><a href="http://mybeautifulparanoiax.tumblr.com/post/1279230408/41-of-people-believe-that-self-harm-is-selfish" style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); text-decoration: none; cursor: pointer !important; display: block; -webkit-box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.046875) -1px 1px 3px; position: relative; width: 466px; "><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_la1r4noTe11qdjksoo1_500.jpg" alt="mybeautifulparanoiax: 41% of people believe that self-harm is selfish. 55% believe that it is stupid. 43% know someone that has self-harmed. One in ten people have harmed by the age of sixteen. Self-harm does not make you suicidal. It does not make you emo. It is simply a way that many use to rid themselves of stress or pain or whatever it may be. Over 3 million people in the US have self-harmed or still do. Cutting is not just a girl’s disorder. Anyone can do it. Males, females, and persons that don’t fit into the gender binary. And it is not just teens, either. Both Princess Diana and Johnny Depp have gone through it. The person who always seems happy could be victim to it. Anyone. There are other forms of self-harm besides cutting or mutilation. There’s CSP; a disorder where you’ll pick at your skin, bite your skin, bite your nails, or pull out hair, usually when you’re bored or due to perfectionism. There’s also burning yourself, and other things that could cause injury such as hitting yourself or other objects. Some people don’t realize they’re doing it. Some people don’t think it’s wrong. Some people become addicted. People don’t hide their cuts or marks hoping someone will find them unless they actually want help to get better. It’s often hidden because they’re afraid of someone seeing. People don’t show off their scars because they’re cool. They’re just there. And there’s no point in hiding them. Often people become proud of their scars because they know they’re past it. An orange ribbon is used as a self-harm awareness symbol. Those suffering from it or have been through it or support it often wear one. To Write Love On Her Arms is amazing for what they do. They help people get past their self-harm or addictions or suicidal thoughts. Many people don’t support TWLOHA, but I think it’s an amazing cause. You do not have to have gone through anything like this to support it. Sometimes all people want to know is that they’re not alone. Don’t judge someone based on the marks they have on their arms. You don’t know what they’ve been through. Rather, be proud of them for making through it. Life can be a bitch. http://loopie2008-stock.deviantart.com/art/hope-166373574" style="border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; cursor: pointer !important; display: block; -webkit-box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.046875) -1px 1px 3px; " /></a></div><div class="content" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 100px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-size: 11px; line-height: 1.455; "><blockquote style="margin-top: 9px; margin-right: 35px; margin-bottom: 9px; margin-left: 20px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 10px; border-left-width: 5px; border-left-style: solid; border-left-color: rgb(229, 229, 229); "><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">41% of people believe that self-harm is selfish. 55% believe that it is stupid. 43% know someone that has self-harmed. One in ten people have harmed by the age of sixteen.</em></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Self-harm does <strong style="font-style: inherit; font-weight: bold; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">not </strong>make you suicidal. It does <strong style="font-style: inherit; font-weight: bold; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">not </strong>make you emo. It is simply a way that many use to rid themselves of stress or pain or whatever it may be. Over <strong style="font-style: inherit; font-weight: bold; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">3 million people</strong>in the US have self-harmed or still do.</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Cutting is <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">not</em> just a girl’s disorder. Anyone can do it. <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">Males, females, and persons that don’t fit into the gender binary</em>. And it is <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">not </em>just teens, either. Both Princess Diana and Johnny Depp have gone through it. The person who <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">always seems happy could be victim</em> to it. Anyone.</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">There are other forms of self-harm <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">besides </em>cutting or mutilation. There’s CSP; a disorder where you’ll <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">pick at your skin, bite your skin, bite your nails, or pull out hair</em>, usually when you’re bored or due to perfectionism. There’s also<em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">burning yourself</em>, and other things that could cause injury such as <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">hitting yourself</em> or other objects.</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Some people don’t <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">realize </em>they’re doing it. Some people don’t think it’s <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">wrong</em>. Some people become <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">addicted</em>. People don’t hide their cuts or marks hoping someone will find them unless they actually <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">want help to get better</em>. It’s often hidden because they’re <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">afraid </em>of someone seeing. People <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">don’t</em> show off their scars because they’re cool. They’re just <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">there</em>. And there’s no point in hiding them. Often people become proud of their scars because they know they’re past it.</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">An orange ribbon is used as a self-harm awareness symbol. Those suffering from it or have been through it or support it often wear one. <strong style="font-style: inherit; font-weight: bold; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">To Write Love On Her Arms</strong> is amazing for what they do. They help people get past their self-harm or addictions or suicidal thoughts. Many people don’t support TWLOHA, but I think it’s an amazing cause.</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">You do <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">not </em>have to have gone through anything like this to support it. Sometimes all people want to know is that they’re not alone. Don’t judge someone based on the marks they have on their arms. <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">You don’t know what they’ve been through</em>. Rather, be <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; ">proud </em>of them for making through it. Life can be a bitch.</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: inherit; font-family: 'Lucida Sans', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-right: 0px; "><a href="http://loopie2008-stock.deviantart.com/art/hope-166373574" style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); text-decoration: none; font-weight: bold; margin-right: 0px; "></a><a href="http://loopie2008-stock.deviantart.com/art/hope-166373574" style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); text-decoration: none; font-weight: bold; margin-right: 0px; ">http://loopie2008-stock.deviantart.com/art/hope-166373574</a></em></p></blockquote></div></span>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-19513181966037452872010-10-16T05:23:00.001-07:002010-10-16T05:23:52.499-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZ4K2VAOxnTz1L-U_hrqo8CyojvH3lgpS-vNJBSm3CsReiG3tkMK-FayJWc1Em-tFA6dBoiZapxFdN3izYKT-T-Yje4xRYgF46aXPdQhuXxfH68SxMFCDRT3BOfSkQadudSEyJHfrsBv90/s1600/tumblr_l9oy6ujxpG1qcpb9qo1_500.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 340px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZ4K2VAOxnTz1L-U_hrqo8CyojvH3lgpS-vNJBSm3CsReiG3tkMK-FayJWc1Em-tFA6dBoiZapxFdN3izYKT-T-Yje4xRYgF46aXPdQhuXxfH68SxMFCDRT3BOfSkQadudSEyJHfrsBv90/s400/tumblr_l9oy6ujxpG1qcpb9qo1_500.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5528618587266188050" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-36182530310170953402010-10-16T05:21:00.002-07:002010-10-16T05:22:45.817-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPNX6gIfcI8E3DxH2y7tOxfHV6wpg1CmUIfncXB4WAV214DDn2S_lzAJwRoqSGhBQb_nzVJJrRoYLtRfGr-pWOHuATWkN8OTolCvC5CeTtVLHx0Z8QVesBeFKzvA_Oy7df7znKKEE9XEaX/s1600/tumblr_la9oxyyUbO1qdp3rbo1_500.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; 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cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWKYos2C6_Yd_HmpDz2hfH8D8e9Xh_QbfurzLO1ilnWF0ppZ74tXXH6piqEh2bMAQH0hI_0_ARf5BR7hBZhkRjnHkXsspz3IDSzG3__3A0IThljbvaE10RWEhc2lF-VDKv3nGklzPau_Kt/s400/33628_1408011719690_1214350466_30919575_6260416_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5528498527344646658" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-89384043506253038502010-10-15T21:37:00.001-07:002010-10-15T21:37:33.649-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMnUTLeIzrr2AEBjuNaBqLbYYQfU5AlwMt02mvzt_fsqMav99vhs32cP-UGgKoZXsv1A4xhHPopsoaxxLs_RYzg3dSBblmNC0zx-fHN9hJAlTNUbSfgFKG8vAmawBVnQW99ajUn2Dc5IHR/s1600/tumblr_la9mu335NE1qzx2g8o1_500.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 394px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMnUTLeIzrr2AEBjuNaBqLbYYQfU5AlwMt02mvzt_fsqMav99vhs32cP-UGgKoZXsv1A4xhHPopsoaxxLs_RYzg3dSBblmNC0zx-fHN9hJAlTNUbSfgFKG8vAmawBVnQW99ajUn2Dc5IHR/s400/tumblr_la9mu335NE1qzx2g8o1_500.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5528498424151928882" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-65625734974761248372010-10-15T05:28:00.000-07:002010-10-15T05:33:41.808-07:00I'm starting to feel that pressure again. Where people around me are giving me conflicting pressures. Should I do it? Or shouldn't I? The question that is hanging over my head at the moment. People keep asking have you decided about whether or not I want to do it and I keep telling them, I'm not sure yet, I need some more time to think but they don't seem to understand trying to pinpoint who in my life has insecurities about, whether its my parents or friends or teachers, each one pushing from a different direction, and unfortunately I can't split myself that many ways. But is it really worth doing this to keep up that image and facade? Is it really worth putting myself through the extra stress? For now, I really don't know. Its such a big decision, but people keep forgetting about what I feel.first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-28138569544403077442010-10-13T03:25:00.002-07:002010-10-13T03:26:14.648-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1dOgCNY6q68y0UDoaYQVDzjkJtGVFo8LdHal9sbQjRuQUzGnoDPnpMoK5NCa3JL4rRRBaA8vaaBYCeAbdvb-tcALG6dMGZ3TK2pxm1e3YTvl1-ztegBRkRtLfSthKsejvzxP3Eqtl8l-z/s1600/tumblr_l8y3tkiq4G1qak6opo1_500.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 340px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1dOgCNY6q68y0UDoaYQVDzjkJtGVFo8LdHal9sbQjRuQUzGnoDPnpMoK5NCa3JL4rRRBaA8vaaBYCeAbdvb-tcALG6dMGZ3TK2pxm1e3YTvl1-ztegBRkRtLfSthKsejvzxP3Eqtl8l-z/s400/tumblr_l8y3tkiq4G1qak6opo1_500.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5527475031231436402" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-55399535180743622762010-10-13T03:25:00.001-07:002010-10-13T03:25:54.996-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZ3Eqp06c_mo3-BMTrTdplloYmrw2xfVMKOzoAjJLbZCN8CczMd4XtZcrFZva2Jw-8m0ePtaQt7BPtVb0GMjlRqF1B1AydttukWt7djFKPwxLtOhOGQSMT4DeMwglIZmF0XRo1JamFDilS/s1600/tumblr_l7lv5jI5mP1qb8q4so1_500.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZ3Eqp06c_mo3-BMTrTdplloYmrw2xfVMKOzoAjJLbZCN8CczMd4XtZcrFZva2Jw-8m0ePtaQt7BPtVb0GMjlRqF1B1AydttukWt7djFKPwxLtOhOGQSMT4DeMwglIZmF0XRo1JamFDilS/s400/tumblr_l7lv5jI5mP1qb8q4so1_500.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5527474946911178130" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-21240456868517413582010-10-13T01:43:00.001-07:002010-10-13T01:43:48.471-07:00this is me:<a href="http://firstbornandfriend.tumblr.com/">http://firstbornandfriend.tumblr.com/</a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-57184776311158238602010-10-13T01:41:00.000-07:002010-10-13T01:42:15.397-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8Fv5CeRRDXEBpqz300pAMjHgnbd53ywIVo7Bd6yAywGdfULwFcMICYLRfmRQYa3F2IlLEuFL8rJPT67IWUjCsOvQ4Y9W-6qkyY6TjZp4UP43XBeq8DluOKCcGM9CcE7eLL2vH4oUid1q2/s1600/tumblr_la1txnDRlE1qa0nd6o1_500.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8Fv5CeRRDXEBpqz300pAMjHgnbd53ywIVo7Bd6yAywGdfULwFcMICYLRfmRQYa3F2IlLEuFL8rJPT67IWUjCsOvQ4Y9W-6qkyY6TjZp4UP43XBeq8DluOKCcGM9CcE7eLL2vH4oUid1q2/s400/tumblr_la1txnDRlE1qa0nd6o1_500.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5527448060248717282" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-10424142440856105362010-10-13T01:29:00.000-07:002010-10-13T01:30:02.259-07:00<a href="http://nymag.com/daily/entertainment/2010/09/hogwarts_gets_the_internet.html">http://nymag.com/daily/entertainment/2010/09/hogwarts_gets_the_internet.html</a><div><br /></div><div>Yeeeeees! :D</div>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-80314699533029526422010-10-12T02:59:00.000-07:002010-10-12T03:06:20.263-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhR5ASJKesRW7iN7278Nxwjm0_BIGfLTfTg1Wc2jVSpj9rfEg-i_WZq-X_25EnhfXYtn8cUSapKcL_Ta3Y5diC2Ang07xCWC50uocxUU_9ke5gt4mpzx7RbpTU6Tt6F96e2BPdcCksiYzOz/s1600/tumblr_l6b8p0w8R51qcah60o1_500.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 298px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhR5ASJKesRW7iN7278Nxwjm0_BIGfLTfTg1Wc2jVSpj9rfEg-i_WZq-X_25EnhfXYtn8cUSapKcL_Ta3Y5diC2Ang07xCWC50uocxUU_9ke5gt4mpzx7RbpTU6Tt6F96e2BPdcCksiYzOz/s400/tumblr_l6b8p0w8R51qcah60o1_500.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5527097506951180626" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-60353570959107088212010-10-11T03:06:00.000-07:002010-10-11T03:08:27.241-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZHIMG7NqolpFFrR7joR2IlfpdE5iKqJvdg260ek3-_GXEe6ZxhJGR74pMn05idvjX7JwxQ0yngwQ-7d1i_EGjDYe5z6S1Mae4wUBs6q9PF0ac6xqoPbAClhRoVpFE0c-V9LQYSw7hfPFs/s1600/tumblr_la0x81HOCX1qe1pmho1_500.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 350px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZHIMG7NqolpFFrR7joR2IlfpdE5iKqJvdg260ek3-_GXEe6ZxhJGR74pMn05idvjX7JwxQ0yngwQ-7d1i_EGjDYe5z6S1Mae4wUBs6q9PF0ac6xqoPbAClhRoVpFE0c-V9LQYSw7hfPFs/s400/tumblr_la0x81HOCX1qe1pmho1_500.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5526728184526870898" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-71365674293596149842010-10-11T03:04:00.000-07:002010-10-11T03:05:52.679-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxNBZ2mJIFpRJddSLk4Dwh6wgHu8AXX1o8fstnqTh3CersgR_hUz-_V6Av289k-Cap48s4NPxhLW4kdZobfP57HSmRNoPBFL0RbpzE4-V2YYropvO2Y3Imz23XNUiSGZr6rtSLzba4TTnw/s1600/tumblr_l9xbpcPQOo1qcujyzo1_500.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxNBZ2mJIFpRJddSLk4Dwh6wgHu8AXX1o8fstnqTh3CersgR_hUz-_V6Av289k-Cap48s4NPxhLW4kdZobfP57HSmRNoPBFL0RbpzE4-V2YYropvO2Y3Imz23XNUiSGZr6rtSLzba4TTnw/s400/tumblr_l9xbpcPQOo1qcujyzo1_500.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5526727530405625298" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-69553397768396807742010-10-01T03:49:00.000-07:002010-10-01T03:51:41.990-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj94CRrgEGJYZ8ClYIjivWwJqBN_iPSyWgNR3vXVtGd6MRKJ1m4FTAjm1YHy4K3BKNqZn7Rdd0PhXn2mb39GOqleklEnHqUoJoJZnH4aLcdmpP0AKykY-jSrOe1yLbaX9LIDhrRReJ4x-H-/s1600/tumblr_l9eq6kqBAC1qcpcroo1_500.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj94CRrgEGJYZ8ClYIjivWwJqBN_iPSyWgNR3vXVtGd6MRKJ1m4FTAjm1YHy4K3BKNqZn7Rdd0PhXn2mb39GOqleklEnHqUoJoJZnH4aLcdmpP0AKykY-jSrOe1yLbaX9LIDhrRReJ4x-H-/s400/tumblr_l9eq6kqBAC1qcpcroo1_500.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5523028150025468178" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;">I must have one of these! </div><div style="text-align: center;">On the wind, cross the sea. </div><div style="text-align: center;">Hear this song and remember. </div><div style="text-align: center;">Soon you'll be home with me. </div><div style="text-align: center;">Once upon a December</div>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-32491417980299343872010-09-29T23:41:00.002-07:002010-09-29T23:42:16.326-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTWtqE_SDsE581D8niV8E4SfMPb26Ey6pK4yBwCmEfBbZR9kGPgdyejbaIslhdTmxQ5ryGHUs81MhGPco9NYsVDJame9n1lSvjn6O-wTCH-XPWABr4Q4lTT2WZAy09YPwCh1oVdJvnnV8Y/s1600/tumblr_l9g44xcoYl1qbwqaso1_500.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTWtqE_SDsE581D8niV8E4SfMPb26Ey6pK4yBwCmEfBbZR9kGPgdyejbaIslhdTmxQ5ryGHUs81MhGPco9NYsVDJame9n1lSvjn6O-wTCH-XPWABr4Q4lTT2WZAy09YPwCh1oVdJvnnV8Y/s400/tumblr_l9g44xcoYl1qbwqaso1_500.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5522593160335644226" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6520434195537566964.post-63216404378581825092010-09-29T23:41:00.001-07:002010-09-29T23:41:38.117-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJpR86AOD_ONEG2dmPvuMr9qepcGdhfpbRHi31mmH2ijZsfAOXAv9Lt9_pu6CJVWuLnjIvXmfCpfF1Vdop83lMQ8AVjycVVd8lt83AR0jqwPpwjo2CxySr6FpKd0rREBuqqGEgMc1NTfhh/s1600/tumblr_l98ybbTzKV1qb4g9xo1_500.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 286px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJpR86AOD_ONEG2dmPvuMr9qepcGdhfpbRHi31mmH2ijZsfAOXAv9Lt9_pu6CJVWuLnjIvXmfCpfF1Vdop83lMQ8AVjycVVd8lt83AR0jqwPpwjo2CxySr6FpKd0rREBuqqGEgMc1NTfhh/s400/tumblr_l98ybbTzKV1qb4g9xo1_500.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5522592974810839186" /></a>first born and friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07691309018023047339noreply@blogger.com0